Day 8: Potty training and the ‘Hook-Squat-Lift’ technique

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We’ve had quite a few long drives and busy trips this week so today we chilled out on the caravan site and in the local town of Ardrossan.

This morning showed some progress with the tiddler’s potty training as she was able to take herself to the potty with PJ bottoms on rather than being naked! She can now take down her PJs and did the same with her leggings when we went out for brekkie (there’s no shame or embarrassment being a toddler and dropping your pants in a café!!)


Big Girl Knickers!

I’ve not put ‘big girl’ knickers on yet, partly because it’s just one more layer to remove in a quick “I need a wee NOW!” situation and partly because when I tried the other day she majorly resisted. One thing I don’t want to do whilst potty training is force anything and create any negative associations. I did buy some Frozen knickers today so when we decide it’s the right time, we’ll produce them as an excitable present.

On the walk back to the caravan I caught her grabbing between her legs and trying to get the potty out. Without knowing how urgent it was I didn’t risk making it to the caravan and just sat her on the potty by the roadside.

A few more times today she’s not told us she needed to go but I’ve seen her grabbing between her legs and that’s given enough of a warning to either make it to the nearest toilet (thankfully there was one nearby for the evening poo!!!) or at least manage the ‘hook-squat-lift’ in a nearby bush! At least that’s what I call it. This toiletting technique was taught by the tiddler’s Godmother and you basically drop their trousers and lift them up from behind with your arms hooked under their thighs. This makes them go into the squat position. You then close your eyes and pray it’s just a wee!!

Day 7: Potty training and Heads of Ayr Farm Park

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I’ll keep today’s post short as I realise they’re getting longer and longer!

Number of daytime nappies: zero

Number of accidents: 1 in the soft play

She still seems to only be able to take herself to the potty when she’s naked on the bottom half so trips out involve potty trip timings and she’s very good at happily sitting down and doing a wee straight away. If the weather was warmer she could probably go commando in a skirt! We’ve been lugging the potty around in a little carrier bag and we usually just take it into the nearest toilet, or failing that find a corner and empty it into a bush nearby! She’s getting a bit better at pulling her trousers up and down but still needs help.

Our trip out from the caravan today was a visit to Heads of Ayr Farm Park just south of Ayr, Scotland. This was free for the tiddler and £10.50 per adult. I was joking that the tiddler would get more fun out of it than us… I was wrong!


As well as the usual farm animals, there were also monkeys, racoons, meerkats, to name just a few. The playground was in a sandpit and had little and large pirate climbing boats with slides, a plank, nets, wobbly bridges. There were lots of trampolines, 3 huge bouncing ‘pillows’, little and large go karting tracks, a water tyre ride.


The main highlights for the tiddler were the tunnels in the huge ‘castle’ (which also had a climbing wall, slide and stunning views over to the sea) and ‘Digger Land’. Some of the diggers had slides coming off, and the little manual diggers could be operated to pick up sand.


We then found more slides coming down a little hill with views across the sea and an adrenaline rush tyre ride for bigger kids (and adults!!) There was a welly throw, a newly opened indoor soft play and sensory area next to the slide park. This had wavy slides, sack rides and big drop adrenaline slides.

Sorry I said this wasn’t going to be too long today but I’ve got to tell you about the toddler soft play. There was a farm theme with a mini animal roundabout, an air pressured ball shoot where you put the balls in the mouth of a cow ‘ ‘feed me’ and they shoot through the tubes in the cow and come out the ‘poo’ hole! I had fun with air jets to hover the balls from the ball pit and the tiddler enjoyed the usual climbing frames and slides.


I’ve not even mentioned the other activities indoors like the electric diggers, combine harvester climbing frame with a tube slide and tunnels and pet animal area. All in all more than enough to fill a fantastic day out to entertain a wide variety of ages (even adults!) indoors and outdoors!


Day 6: Potty training and Loch Lomond trip

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The sun has finally come out in Scotland!!! We drove up to Balloch, by Loch Lomond this morning and took our picnic onto the Loch cruise. This was a 45 minute round trip with a commentary telling us about the landmarks we could see on the water edge.

There was much more to do than I thought there would be and we easily filled a whole day. The Balloch visitor centre seemed very modernised with excellent baby and toddler facilties including a large toilet to fit a pushchair, low down sinks and toilets for smaller children and the usual baby changing facilities. This was attached to a shopping centre which we bypassed to go to the playground.

The playground had fantastic views over the Loch with stunning mountains in the backdrop.

We then spotted a mini ‘train’ ride which was a massive hit with the tiddler and at only £1.50 per person (under 2’s free) it took us on a short tour around the Balloch end of the Loch, through some woodland and the jolly train driver stopped a couple of times to explain where we were. We got off half way to explore ‘Maid of the Loch’, an old steam liner which was being restored after vandals caused it to sink. This was free entry and the tiddler loved exploring it and we then relaxed in the café on the boat until the train came back to pick us up.

We parked up at Balloch Castle and walked down to the edge of the Loch where there was a modern playground split in 2; a toddler playground and a second for 4-14 year olds. The toddler playground had a train shaped climbing frame with slide, a sandpit with wendy house and interactive clock and abacus toys, rocking camel and horse, a roundabout and swings. We didn’t venture into the older playground but from what I could see there was a trampoline, a rope swing roundabout, and climbing nets.


The scenic view from the playground


Stone throwing on the shore


Evening Stroll in the Sunshine

After spending some time enjoying the Loch shore throwing stones and taking in the scenic view, we drove round to have a pub lunch in a gorgeous beer garden. From there we made the most of the rare Scottish sunshine by having a short walk along the river before the drive back to the caravan.

We followed pretty much the same potty training routine as yesterday and only had 1 accident! This happened because I put her on the potty too soon after our afternoon drink and snack. By the time the drink had ‘gone through’ we were walking by the lake and she clutched her crotch. I asked her if she wanted the potty but she said “no”… then she did it again but I brushed off the signs thinking she’d been not long ago and then she ran off and weed. I now know the sign for “I need a wee”!

Day 5: Potty training and 2 Scottish Castles

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Number of nappies used: zero!

Number of accidents: 1. I completely forgot she wasn’t wearing a nappy until I heard “wee wee, wee wee!!!” in the middle of Tesco this morning.

Number of changes of trousers: 1. See above.

Number of panic moments: 2. In the middle of Tesco and when she fell asleep in the car seat with no nappy. Fortunately she woke 1.5 hours later dry!

We had a lovely and mostly dry day (I’m talking about the weather now!) Visited Dean Castle Country Park which I would highly recommend for anyone, especially with children as you can have a short woodland walk whilst spotting deer, owls, a river, bridge and some little waterfalls. By the castle there’s also a small farm with pigs, chickens, goats, rabbits, guinea pigs, doves and other birds as well as a duck pond. There are 2 playgrounds, 1 for older children with a zip wire and climbing frames and one for the younger ones.


The visitor centre offered a reasonably priced lunch box for kids and a wide variety of sandwiches, wraps, paninis, toasties and jacket potatoes.

The tiddler then napped (nappy free!) in the car en route to Dundonald Castle. In fact we all slept for an hour and a half in the car park when we arrived then headed into the café for a drink. The path up to the castle was quite steep but the views across to the sea and the Isle of Arran were beautiful. The castle itself was tiny so we didn’t fork out the entrance fee and headed back down to the playground.

Although she only had the one accident all day, each potty run was lead by us as she doesn’t always seem to be able to identify when she needs to go unless we’re in the house. We tended to time potty runs roughly 15mins after drinking, before car journeys and straight after her nap. This seems to be working at the moment and hopefully we’ll progress to her being able to tell us when she needs to go.

Day 4: Potty training and British beaches

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It’s August, it’s ‘summer’ holiday season, it’s raining… RAINING. On and off but today there was torrential, tarmac bouncing rain and wind for the best part of 3 hours in the middle of the day. This wouldn’t be so bad if hadn’t been raining for the past fortnight. I’d optimistically been saying “it’s just getting the rain out of its system before our holiday!” Sadly it’s STILL wet.

It seemed quite nice this morning, from inside the caravan. We headed out to explore the beach and the tiddler excitedly grabbed her bucket, spade… and coat. Her WINTER coat! The wind was so cold we played on the beach in typical British style with our coats and bravely bared feet to paddle. We forced an optimism through pure grit and determination that the pants weather wasn’t going to ruin our fun. After all, what better place to potty train a tiddler than on a beach where she’s already getting wet.


We headed to the pool in the afternoon which was another fantastic place to visit with a potty training tiddler! In fact the only time we needed to put a nappy on was for her nap but she did a wee before and after and the nappy stayed dry!

This morning was the first time she asked to do a wee wee when out and about. It ended up with me crouched with a potty in the gents toilets after she’d ran away during breakfast, opened a toilet door and shouted “mummy wee wee!”. Now as there’s usually not much warning I just ran after her with the potty. It wasn’t until she was sat on it that I looked around and realised I was surrounded by urinals! It’s a good job it was deserted!

The rest of the day brought a few accidents when we were out but inside the caravan she continued to take herself to the potty.

Tomorrow I vow not to moan about the weather.

We’re in Britain after all.

It happens every year.

The tiddler is still having a ball!


Ayrshire Coast

Day 3: Potty training and holiday travelling

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After holidaying from home for the last couple of days today we’re off to spend the next week in a caravan park in Ayrshire, Scotland. After seeing the tiddlers excitement at playing in the sand in the park I’m really looking forward to seeing her reaction to the beach which is 5 minutes walk away from our caravan. There’s also an indoor swimming pool, playground and children’s entertainment on site!

Potty training is on hold for the 5 hour car journey. I don’t fancy scrubbing a urine soaked car seat. For future journeys I’ve ordered a Car Seat Protector that also fits the pram.

Arriving at the caravan park was met with squeals of excitement as the tiddler explored her new home for the next week. We showed her the bedroom with her cot in as bedtime always seems to go well when she’s already explored!

The long nap on the car journey enabled us to stay up a bit later and make the most of our first night out in the complex. Thankfully even after the excitement of the children’s entertainment, dancing and being in a new place she went straight into her cot without a fuss and only woke once for her covers to be put back over. Great start despite the torrential rain!

Day 2: Potty training and good friends

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We had such a fun day today looking after our friend’s children who are 3 and 2. The Urban Beach and fair in the park was such a hit yesterday we decided to go back. Our tiddler goes to the same childminder as the other children so she plays with them a lot and their parents are her Godparents!


We spent the first few hours playing in the house doing jigsaws, reading, and we had lots of laughs dancing to music and playing musical statues! Staying at home also gave us chance to give the tiddler some nappy off time and she did really well taking herself to the potty that we decided to take the potty with us.

The kids loved the playground, went on the bouncy castle slide and spent a while playing in the sand before our picnic lunch. The tiddler was too excited by it all to think about doing any wees on the potty and all suggestions about going on the potty were met with a defiant “no” and resistance because she wanted to play. We didn’t force it and just put a nappy back on after a couple of accidents.

Back in the house she continued to be great on potty so for now we’ll just keep praising everything she does and not push potty training out of the house until she’s ready.

Day 1: Potty training and the Urban Beach

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For the next 14 days I’m going to write a little holiday diary whilst I’ve got quality time with my little girlie and husband. Life can get so busy sometimes and the weekends usually fly by so I’m really looking forward to this quality family time together. My little girl, now 22 months has also started showing signs she’s getting ready for potty training so we’re going to devote some time to this too.

Signs the tiddler seemed ready to potty train:

  • Telling us she had done a wee or poo in her nappy
  • Doing a large quantity of wee in the potty at once
  • More aware of us going to the toilet
  • Good association of potty with doing a wee.

After her bath we leave her nappy off whilst watching the bedtime hour and having her milk and leave the potty out. We’ve been doing this for months and she’s never done anything on it. However last night after she’d finished her milk I said “potty time!” and she sat on it and did a big wee wee! We gave her lots of praise then she seemed to just love sitting on it and went on to do another wee wee and a poo!

This morning I took the nappy off and produced a sticker chart and tried to explain that if she sat on potty to do a wee wee or poo she would get a sticker. She sat on potty, didn’t do anything then wanted a sticker! She cried when I wasn’t going to give it her so I ended up letting her put a sticker on for ‘having a go’. After all I don’t want her to start getting upset and not wanting to sit on it! She then did 2 more wee wees on the potty that morning… The first time she started weeing before she got to the potty but did the rest in the potty and the second time she actually ran over to the potty saying “wee wee”! Some success!

We then went to visit my university friend and her newborn! He’s 5 weeks old now (although his due date is tomorrow) and he’s such a cutie! The tiddler was so gentle with him, stroking his hair and naming his body parts! “His hand, his nose…” Had a lovely walk in between rain showers.

The rest of the day was pretty good, although I didn’t brave going out without the nappy. She went on the potty after lunch then had a nap and her nappy was dry when she woke. However she was too tired and groggy to deal with going on the potty and went in her nappy.

The sun was out so we headed to the local park where there was a summer holiday beach and fairground. The tiddler went on her first ride and absolutely loved playing in the sand with her bucket and spade. We literally had to drag her away and there were LOTS of tears so must have been good!


Beach in the Park

She went on the potty again before bed and still loves getting a sticker (how long will that last?!) Although she doesn’t seem to get much warning we’re definitely heading in the right direction…. I’ll get a new carpet one day!!

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I Surrender Mummy

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Ok, ok I surrender.

You win mummy.

I’ll go to dreamland.



Top 10 Cute Tiddler Moments: 20 months

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This post started as a ‘Top 3’ post then quickly became ‘Top 5’ then the more I thought back on the past few weeks I realised there were easily at least top 10 moments where I’ve laughed and my heart melted at how cute this tiddler can be. So these are her top 10 cute moments aged 20 months:

1) Coming across a tiny dog in the park she bent down and said “Hello doggie” as she usually does… but then looked confused for a moment then said “hello mouse!”

2) She spilt her morning milk on her Peppa Pig pyjamas and wiped her top saying “Sorry Peppa”.

3) I was trying on a dress for a friend’s wedding and she just looked up at me and said “pretty mummy” #heartmeltmoment

4) Gently putting her dolly in her pushchair and pushing it forwards and backwards with a finger on the lips “ssshhh”.

5) Leaning into the pram to look at my friend’s baby and stroked his hair saying “hello gorgeous!”


6) Reaching to hold hands with her friend as we walked through the park.

7) Everytime she farts she says “excuse you!”

8) When we sneeze she says “bless you mummy / daddy / [insert name of person here]!”

9) A couple of weeks ago she grazed her knees and at every bath time for the following week she would kiss her knees better.

10) One bedtime staying at my parents’ house she was too excitable to sleep so I ended up lying next to her cot singing and had to stop myself giggling when she was holding up her monkey to the side of the cot going “peepo peepo!!!”

What has been the cutest thing your tiddler has done this week?

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